There are volumes of virtual articles and actual books that examine the current generation of 18-35 year olds. Some of that work is highly positive, a lot of it disconcerting, and there’s a bit of it that is downright paranoid.
There are certainly things to be concerned about. If I wasn’t concerned I wouldn’t do what I do.
But, I am also deeply encouraged.
I see signs of hope all the time. During conversations over a cup of coffee, in students who wake up early on Saturday mornings to tutor kids, in our leaders, and on trips like we took to Joplin.
For 8 days I saw students who have grown up in the most self-centered, narcissistic era of all time (according to some), give and serve and sacrifice, and do it all with a happy heart, a cheerful disposition, and absolutely no complaining.
Which was amazing, but here’s my favorite part:
At the end of each spring break trip I’ve been on I’ve led groups through a simple exercise called “the hot seat.” When you are on the hot seat you silently sit and let the rest of the group speak words of affirmation and life into you.
It’s deeply moving.
Students today get all kinds of accolades and positive feedback from the culture at large (especially if they buy the right things, wear the right things, and say the right things on Facebook).
But, in my experience, as these cultural accolades increase, there is less space for
an actual person,
who actually knows you,
who has actually seen you in your element,
to say real and honest words
to your face.
In these moments you see the power of words, the power of real human interactions, and the greatness that resides inside each of these individuals.
We are blessed right now with some amazing students who God is using to do amazing things.
I’m grateful to just be here and to witness it.
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I wish I could say to your face how much I like you…and how blessed I have been by your blog these past few weeks. Thank you, Steve.
I too have been blessed by your blog-thoughts!